Once you have carefully examined her profile, you can then use the information you have, no matter how little, to find out more about her through skillful and positive questioning. Just remember not to make it sound like you are interrogating her and not to make her feel uncomfortable and disrespected; otherwise, the exercise in trying to communicate effectively would have been all for naught. For example, if you found out that she is a tourist guide by profession, you can ask her leading questions like: Do you enjoy travelling? Do you like meeting new people? Have you had the chance to travel to many places around China, or even outside China? Do you love your job? Do you see yourself doing something else other than being a tourist guide? From these simple questions, you can easily find out if she has been exposed to all kinds of people, which could mean that she can easily adjust to different kinds of environments; you may also learn what her future plans are.
With your questions, you have to make her feel that you are genuinely interested in learning more about her. Every woman loves the feeling that a man is extremely interested in her (as long as you don't give off a creepy vibe, of course). With each response you get to your questions, you may also have the opportunity to share details about you or your thoughts about certain stuff. This way, she can also learn more about you. Over time, the two of you will fall into a natural and smooth conversation rhythm and develop a unique connection with each other. This is an effective way of learning more about each other to facilitate an effective means of communication that is based on mutual and sincere interest and the enjoyment of each other's company, rather than merely on the practical use of words with no real curiosity and emotional and psychological involvement under it.
Once the proper foundation has been laid out, the potential for a long-term online, and perhaps even a real-life, relationship can be given the chance to develop and be explored. And because a comfortable connection has already been formed, the more difficult communication obstacles can be more easily handled by both. At the least, the two of you may develop a special and lasting friendship.Learn more about Chinese dating and China women from blogs and forums found only on the most reputable matchmaking sites, such as ChinaLoveMatch.net, where other foreign men share their insights and real-life experiences.